It is unreasonable to expect that you and your ex will be great friends with no emotional upheaval while going through the stages of divorce. If you wish to have a cheap and reasonably amicable divorce, it helps to be “friendly” with each other as opposed to being enemies. To get to a place where you can feel friendly towards each other, remember that once you were in love and chose each other as life partners. Reflect on the chapter of your life together that was filled withh many happy and enjoyable times. Realize that you have both made choices over the years and grown as individuals and now perhaps feel differently about yourself and your future. Using this divorce advice to remember, reflect, and see reality clearly, you can find a way to be friendly during this transition in your life!