Focus on the Prize

Even though you both realized that the marriage was over, one of you had to say those terminal words "let's get a divorce" to start the divorce ball rolling. You may now find that you seem to have been automatically appointed as the person to find out all about the process, the cost and finding a professional to get you separated, get a peaceful divorce, and reporting back to your spouse your findings. It seems like a heavy load being responsible for "making it happen" as well as dealing with your own emotions and fears around the process and the future. I encourage you to face each day putting one foot in front of the other, doing what needs to be done and focussing intently on the prize -- a new and more peaceful chapter of your life promising all that you have and more.........