There are option around parents making decisions about the children:
One parent may make all the major decisions about the children, consulting with the other parent
Both parents may make all the major decision about the children together
The parents may divide the responsibility for making decisions
** See "Access, now called Parenting Time page on this site regarding a parenting schedule.
Don’t let strangers decide custody of your children. The welfare and interests of your children are best served by the two of you coming to your own agreement about the child custody arrangements.
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